“I Just Don’t Know What Suits Me Anymore…” The Style Struggle So Many Women Share and How to Move Past It
It’s the sentence I hear more than any other when working with women, especially mums and perimenopausal women:
“I just don’t know what suits me anymore.”
It’s usually said with a nervous laugh, or a sigh, or even a tinge of frustration. And every time I hear it, my heart aches a little because I know what’s behind it.
These words don’t just mean, “I’m not sure what to wear.”
They often mean:
My body has changed and I don’t recognise it anymore.
The clothes that used to make me feel good just don’t feel right now.
I don’t have time to figure it out, and I’m tired of getting it wrong.
It’s especially common among women who’ve gone through big life shifts, like becoming a mum, returning to work, or hitting a new stage in life (hello perimenopause) where the old wardrobe just doesn’t align anymore.
And the thing is… it’s not your fault.
Your body may have changed. Your priorities have shifted. You’re dressing for a life that looks different to the one you had before. But no one really teaches us how to evolve our style with our lives, so it’s no wonder so many women feel stuck.
But here’s what I want you to know:
You haven’t lost your style - you’ve just lost touch with it. And you can reconnect with it again.
It doesn’t have to be overwhelming, and you definitely don’t need to follow the latest trends or squeeze into something that doesn’t feel like you.
That’s exactly why I created my Stress Free Stylish Mornings eBook - A Capsule Wardrobe Guide a simple, step-by-step guide to help you build a wardrobe that fits your life, your shape, and your personal style. You don’t have to start from scratch, and you definitely don’t need to have a closet full of things you don’t wear.
If you’re ready to rediscover what suits you (and feel good in the process), I’d love to offer you a Free Style Discovery Call. During our chat, we’ll talk about where you are now, where you want to be, and how we can make your wardrobe work for you, no matter your lifestyle or stage of life.
Spring is a time for fresh starts and that includes your wardrobe.
If you’ve been nodding along while reading this, maybe it’s time to take the next step. Download my Capsule Wardrobe Guide eBook today and book your Free Style Discovery Call - we will work together to make getting dressed easy, effortless, and aligned with you.
You deserve to feel good in your clothes again and I’m here to help you start your style and wellness journey.
Stay Stylish,
Debbie x